While everyone is cursing the year and posting entertaining and murderoius pictures about killing 2016, I'm cheering them on and smiling, but also quietly hiding, because I view the past year differently. It felt like a gift to me. I am saddened by the deaths and feel fear and heartbreak for my country, but I feel completely different inside than I did a year ago, and that feels great. I made some big changes at the end of 2015. I shifted my attention away from things that were draining or unfufiling (my day job), and turned toward what most mattered to me at the time, my creative career and a spiritual school that I honestly didn't really know anything about, other then my soul called me to it.
The year has been a deep dive into the unknown, and into the uncomfortable. I spent a lot of time alone, I felt lonely at times, disconnected, I shared my wiritng and creative works with others and it felt like nobody cared, I spent hours in 7-inch stripper heels, I puked my guts up in an Auyuaska, froze my ass off in North Dakota, spent a lot of money, I was celibate (most of the time), fell in love with a former priest who's actually dead (as it turns out), hurt my family, let down friends, and doubted my abilities, my purpose, and my dreams. But, or And, experienced more magic than I thought was possible.
It's been a year of devotion, practice, bringing ritual into daily life, traveling to foreign places, exploring ancient lands, filmmaking, producing, a year of meeting many many incredible people, collaboration, rising up, documenting and sharing my experiences, teaching, prayer, soul friendships, activism, animal magic, connection, witnessing the power of women, trusting myself, and trusting the world. For the first time I experienced what it feels like to feel surrounded by support (from people, animals, trees, spirit) and taken care of. And, also what it feels like to know that everything I need is in me.
The year felt like a gift because it was, and because of that I started living life like gift it is. I am grateful to be alive and feel more real and true to who I am deep down (though I still doubt like crazy). I don't know what 2017 brings, but I am going to keep following my heart and taking time to feel, listen, and be still, and I'll grow with it. People can change, and so can the world. And, I'm in it every step of the way. And, in the words off that dead preist I love, "you're going to be all right. And, in fact, this light is already coming to you." Peace out, 2016. Adele! And, again.